Joe and Donna are currently at the Craig Center in Denver, CO for Joe’s recovery and rehabilitation for a spinal cord injury. On Labor Day Joe rode a mule through the Big Hole Mountain range to prepare for hunting season. Not an unusual thing for him to do. He’s a cowboy who trains horses as a way of life. And on this day the line of animals stopped along a mountain trail. The mule Joe rode unknowingly stood over a hornet’s nest. The hornets stung the underbelly of the mule, and the end result left Joe off the mule with an injured spinal cord at his neck.

But like many who live in Teton Valley being a cowboy isn’t Joe’s only trade. He also drives the county school bus sharing his love and humor with the kids. And a few years back Joe and Donna felt God calling them to build and operate a hotel in Victor, ID they named Cowboy Roadhouse Lodge. But more than what they “do” for a living, they’re the kind of people you meet and never forget. The kind who makes you feel special no matter who you are to them. And since Joe is a native to these parts, he’s left his impression on many, including this “newcomer” of almost ten years.
At the benefit I marveled at the sheer number of people who showed up. The local newspaper reported around eight hundred. When you consider the small population of the valley and we’re in the “off season” of a hard hit economy, a turnout like that is nothing less than astounding. And it wasn’t just farmers and ranchers, but also skiers, laborers, business owners, resort personnel, musicians, artists, fishing guides, children, teachers, part-time residents. The whole spectrum of Teton Valley came out for the love of Joe. And a lump filled my throat when a wife pushed her husband into the arena in a wheelchair. It’s been just a few years since his accident, and this couple traveled to see and encourage Joe and Donna for the journey to come. A divine arrangement in my mind.
While my friends and I stood in line at the benefit, one reminded me, “Joe broke his leg skiing. He took a jump like a teenage kid a few years back,” she’d said in response to another who thought, “Most cowboys don’t ski.” My mind raced back to a bluebird, powder day of laughing and skiing with Joe and Donna about four years earlier. Joe with his cowboy hat and silk scarf around his neck, even on the ski hill as he moved down the slope with the best of them. Cowboys in these parts do ski, indeed.
Children ran around the arena, roping each other or just clowning around. Adults hugged as the vast land space and “busy” keeps many paths from crossing in the summer and fall. People walked by the prizes to see what they wanted to bid on and help Joe at the same time. The line for food stayed long for hours, yet steadily moved. The servers, young and old, all graciously thanked each person for coming out, and I remember one small girl who served salad say, “Thanks for helping Joe.”
My friends and I moved through a sea of people and found a place to sit and savor our pit-roasted pork, baked Idaho spud and salad. The man I sat next to said, “I sure miss Joe.” His lips pursed together. “I ran my cows by his house the other day. He’d always saddle up and give us a hand. That’s just the way Joe was.” A helper no matter what he had planned.
This night everyone had a chance to win, whether through tickets, raffles, or silent or live auction. Hundreds of prizes filled the arena: ponies, a mounted elk head, oil changes, ski tickets, hand-stitched quilts, books, paintings, jewelry, wine, home-made mustard, jams and canned goods, weekend getaways, organic beef, massages, dolls, cookie jars, baked goods, framed prints . . . I can’t possibly name each one.
But no one could’ve foreseen that the two rifles up for a $10 raffle would eventually catch the attention of all in the arena. When they announced the first winner, he put the rifle up for LIVE auction to raise MORE money for Joe. The crowd gasped at the generosity and the first rifle added around $500.
A volunteer drew for the second rifle. The winner was announced. He thought about his prize and then offered it for LIVE auction, too. The crowd cheered and the bidding began.
The battle started with many, yet as the offer neared a grand the contenders began to thin. The random conversations in the barn started to settle, and eyes bounced back and forth between the two cowboys now engaged in the “The Gunfight at the Saddleback Vista Arena.”
When bidding reached $1500, I took note of something different in the eyes of the two men who remained in this fight. One old. One young. Though they tried to keep a steady face their eyes watered on the prize. Not the rifle held up for all to see. But they clearly remained on Joe, likely lending them a hand in the past. Their battle had everything to do with giving back to their friend. To help him get through the fight of his life.
The arena fell silent except for the voices bidding and the auctioneer who called the fight. And when the offer hit near $2000, the younger cowboy graciously bowed out. My own eyes welled with theirs. The on-lookers stood up and cheered, as we knew it wasn’t a battle of ego or territory or revenge as in gunfights of the past. A greater prize was at stake.

By the end of the night over $33,000 was collected to benefit Joe in his recovery. Yet this event was much more than about gathering money. This event called love to come together in one place—for one man—for one outcome. There’s no doubt in my mind that God bundled all of this up and sent it to Joe and Donna to help them press on. It was all for the love of Joe and Donna Nethercott . . . and so much more.




